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  • Jibanananda Das portrayed in a surreal, psychedelic collage inspired by his poetry, surrounded by owls, bats, frogs, porcupines, rivers, twilight skies, manuscripts, and dreamlike landscapes that reflect the haunting metaphors, solitude, memory, and mystical imagination of the legendary Bengali poet.
    Books, Faith & Contemplation

    Jibanananda Das: Why I Find Him the Most Impossible Poet

    July 4, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    A personal reflection on Jibanananda Das, his haunting metaphors, solitary mind, poetic genius, and why reading him feels almost psychedelic. I’d be lying if I said I had been meaning to write about Jibanananda Das for a long time, or that I read him every day. I don’t. Yet his books are never too far from me. They rarely stay neatly arranged on my library shelves because I have a habit of keeping one close to wherever I read or sit quietly with a cup of coffee. And still, months pass without my opening them. Then, without warning perhaps on…

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  • Are you happy?
    Happiness

    Chapter 3: The Hidden Truth About Happiness: Why Happiness Is Difficult Today

    June 30, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Discover why happiness feels harder to find in modern life and learn simple ways to create more happiness through awareness, presence, gratitude, and everyday moments of joy. “Are you happy?” It sounds like a simple question, yet many of us hesitate when answering it. Life may appear to be working just fine on the surface. The bills are paid, responsibilities are handled, kids are doing good in their lives and the days keep moving forward more or less as planned. Still, there can be a quiet feeling that something important is missing. Like a hallow, a longing sensation, specially when…

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    A serene and symbolic illustration of happiness as a way of life, featuring a peaceful home surrounded by lush gardens, blooming flowers, books, meditation, nature, and the sun and moon in harmonious balance. A solitary figure sits in quiet contemplation at the center, representing inner peace, love, beauty, and connection with the natural world. The artwork has a clean, dreamlike psychedelic aesthetic with soft luminous colors, conveying happiness, mindfulness, home, spirituality, and everyday rituals as a unified philosophy of life. The word

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  • Bengali Slokas: The Forgotten Wisdom of Ancient Bengal
    Bangali Life & Memory

    Bengali Slokas: The Extraordinary Wisdom of Ancient Bengal

    June 20, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    There are certain forms of knowledge that survive not because they are written down, but because they are remembered. Bengali Slokas belong to that rare inheritance. They have travelled across centuries through memory, conversation, and repetition, passing from one generation to the next long before books became common companions in Bengali homes. The History and Cultural Importance of Bengali Slokas When I think about Bengali Slokas, I do not think merely of verses or rhymes. I think of an entire civilization speaking through ordinary people. I think of village courtyards, winter evenings, harvest seasons, wedding ceremonies, mothers putting children to…

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    How to Be a Dhaka Woman: 1 Guide, 100 Contradictions and Plenty of Courage

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    A vintage-style cover illustration titled “BENGALI” depicts a serene river winding through the Bengal delta, surrounded by historical architecture, a Baul musician, a woman reading, ancient manuscripts, folk art, pottery, and Bengali script, symbolizing the history, culture, and enduring soul of Bengal.

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  • Happiness is not survival
    Happiness

    Chapter 2: Why We Need Happiness (Not Just Survival)

    June 15, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Why do we need happiness beyond mere survival? Discover how happiness nourishes the mind, strengthens resilience, supports emotional and physical well-being, and helps us live with greater purpose, contentment, and joy in everyday life. Human beings often confuse survival with living. Survival is the instinctive effort to continue existing: earning a living, maintaining health, meeting obligations, and moving from one day to the next. Yet a life built only on survival becomes narrow and mechanical. It keeps the body moving, but it rarely nourishes the spirit. Happiness, by contrast, functions as the deeper fuel of life. Without it, existence slowly…

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  • Summer in Bangladesh
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    Timeless Summer Lessons from Bangladesh’s Forgotten Kitchens

    June 10, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    A nostalgic journey through summer in Bangladesh, filled with mangoes, krishnachura blooms, clay water pots, family rituals, and the forgotten wisdom of the Bengali kitchen. The Forgotten Summer Wisdom of Bengal When I was young, my journey to school took me through the Ramna area. Every year, almost without warning, the roads would be covered in red and yellow blooms. As a child, I never thought much about it. The flowers would appear, scatter across the pavements, and then, after a while, they would be gone. The next time I noticed them, I would be a little taller, wearing a…

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    Bangali Life & Memory

    Rain and the Great Art of Reading the Sky

    June 5, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Discover how observing clouds, wind, birds, and the scent of the earth can help you understand rain. A personal reflection on rain, weather wisdom, and learning to read the sky through careful observation. People Who Can Read the Sky There are people who can read the sky the way others read books. One morning, while we were having our usual conversation before the day properly began, our household support, Sabina, stood near the kitchen window and looked up at the sky. The clouds were dark, the air felt heavy, and everything about the morning suggested storm. “It won’t rain today,”…

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  • Prodoshe Prakritojon
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    The Forgotten Bengal in Prodoshe Prakritojon: A Masterpiece of Bengali Literature

    May 30, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    A deep and personal Prodoshe Prakritojon book review exploring history, identity, caste, Bengal’s transformation, and the poetic brilliance of Shawkat Ali’s masterpiece. Prodoshe Prakritojon is not just a historical novel. It is one of those books that completely rearranges the way you think. I have read many important books on Bengal, history, identity, religion, and culture, but very few books have affected me the way this one did. This novel did not simply tell me a story. It pushed me into a lifelong search for answers about Bengal—its people, its transformations, its wounds, and its forgotten history. As a student…

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    Doing Nothing – Dolce Far Niente Is 1 Skill to Master

    May 20, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    “You Don’t Know How to Do Nothing. That’s the Problem.” Why dolce far niente—the art of doing nothing—is harder than work, and what it quietly fixes in the mind and body. Why Dolce Far Niente Feels So Difficult in Real Life I realised something mildly humiliating the other day. I cannot sit still without turning it into a project. Give me five minutes of silence and I will mentally redesign my life, solve three imaginary problems, and remember something embarrassing from 2004. So when people talk about dolce far niente—the Italian art of doing nothing—I don’t feel inspired. I feel…

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