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  • A serene and symbolic illustration of happiness as a way of life, featuring a peaceful home surrounded by lush gardens, blooming flowers, books, meditation, nature, and the sun and moon in harmonious balance. A solitary figure sits in quiet contemplation at the center, representing inner peace, love, beauty, and connection with the natural world. The artwork has a clean, dreamlike psychedelic aesthetic with soft luminous colors, conveying happiness, mindfulness, home, spirituality, and everyday rituals as a unified philosophy of life. The word
    Happiness

    Final Chapter: Happiness as Sadhana

    August 16, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Happiness is not a passing emotion but a lifelong sadhana shaped by love, home, nature, beauty, work and daily acts of reverence. This concluding reflection explores happiness as a personal philosophy of living fully within the ordinary world. Writing this series has taught me that happiness is far more difficult to explain than to experience. I began with the intention of understanding why happiness matters, why it feels elusive, and how it may be cultivated through habit, knowledge, health, home, ritual and attention. Yet as I moved from one chapter to another, I realised that happiness cannot be separated into…

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  • Buddha
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    Buddha: The Blessed One Who Became My Quiet Home

    August 7, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Discover my personal journey with Buddha, from childhood to daily practice, the history of Buddha in Bengal, and how his teachings transformed my life. Buddha: My Quiet Place in a Restless World Some people discover Buddha through philosophy. Others meet him during grief, illness, or loss. I honestly cannot remember how he entered my life because, as far back as my memory reaches, he has always been there. Every home I have lived in has had a Buddha figure somewhere nearby, quietly watching over my days without asking for anything in return. As a child I never thought deeply about…

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    Happiness

    Chapter 5: Happiness Begins with Practice

    July 31, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Happiness is not built through inspiration alone but through daily practice. Discover how writing, reading, reflection, and meaningful rituals create lasting happiness and a life filled with purpose. Turning Philosophy into Everyday Life The first four chapters have explored what happiness is, why it matters, why it often feels difficult in modern life, and the foundations upon which it quietly grows. We have seen that happiness is not an accident, nor is it reserved for fortunate people. It is built through awareness, meaningful relationships, a peaceful home, good health, and an understanding of ourselves. Knowledge that is never practiced slowly…

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  • The Last Crab Before Australia
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    Cherished Last Spicy Crab Before Australia

    July 25, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    Learn how to make Spicy Butter Garlic Crab with butter, garlic, ginger, chili, soy sauce, smoked paprika, and lemon. An easy crab recipe packed with flavour. The bowl arrived at the table looking exactly as a crab dish should. There was no elegant plating, no artistic arrangement, and certainly no attempt at sophistication. The shells were piled high, stained red with paprika and chili, glistening with butter, garlic, and sauce. It looked gloriously messy, the kind of food that demands both hands and leaves evidence of itself on every napkin within reach. I had spent the morning cleaning the baby…

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    Bangali Life & Memory

    Hemanta Kumari Devi: One Forgotten Queen

    July 19, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    A personal journey through Puthia Palace and the life of Maharani Hemanta Kumari Devi, where history, architecture, memory, and imagination meet in one of Bengal’s most remarkable heritage sites. I have always fallen in love rather easily. Not only with people, but with stories, places, books, old houses, paintings, rivers, and forgotten corners of the world. Some places remain destinations; others become companions. Long before I ever visited Puthia, I had been reading about it. I knew of the palace with its huge columns, the temple complex, the ponds, the queens, and the history of one of Bengal’s most influential…

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  • Foundations of Happiness: Building a Life That Supports Well-Being
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    Chapter 4: Happiness Foundations: Building a Life That Supports Well-Being

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    Foundations of Happiness: Building a Life That Supports Well-Being Happiness is not an accident. Discover how knowledge, a nurturing home, healthy routines, and proper nourishment create the foundation for lasting happiness and inner peace. Happiness is often discussed as if it were a feeling that appears unexpectedly and disappears just as quickly. Yet when we look closely at the lives of people who seem deeply content, we notice something different. Their happiness is rarely built on luck or perfect circumstances. More often, it rests on a foundation of small, consistent practices that support both inner peace and outer order. There…

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    Jibanananda Das: Why I Find Him the Most Impossible Poet

    July 4, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    A personal reflection on Jibanananda Das, his haunting metaphors, solitary mind, poetic genius, and why reading him feels almost psychedelic. I’d be lying if I said I had been meaning to write about Jibanananda Das for a long time, or that I read him every day. I don’t. Yet his books are never too far from me. They rarely stay neatly arranged on my library shelves because I have a habit of keeping one close to wherever I read or sit quietly with a cup of coffee. And still, months pass without my opening them. Then, without warning perhaps on…

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    Chapter 3: The Hidden Truth About Happiness: Why Happiness Is Difficult Today

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    Discover why happiness feels harder to find in modern life and learn simple ways to create more happiness through awareness, presence, gratitude, and everyday moments of joy. “Are you happy?” It sounds like a simple question, yet many of us hesitate when answering it. Life may appear to be working just fine on the surface. The bills are paid, responsibilities are handled, kids are doing good in their lives and the days keep moving forward more or less as planned. Still, there can be a quiet feeling that something important is missing. Like a hallow, a longing sensation, specially when…

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    Bangali Life & Memory

    Bengali Slokas: The Extraordinary Wisdom of Ancient Bengal

    June 20, 2026 - By Aziza Ahmed Paula

    There are certain forms of knowledge that survive not because they are written down, but because they are remembered. Bengali Slokas belong to that rare inheritance. They have travelled across centuries through memory, conversation, and repetition, passing from one generation to the next long before books became common companions in Bengali homes. The History and Cultural Importance of Bengali Slokas When I think about Bengali Slokas, I do not think merely of verses or rhymes. I think of an entire civilization speaking through ordinary people. I think of village courtyards, winter evenings, harvest seasons, wedding ceremonies, mothers putting children to…

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    Happiness

    Chapter 2: Why We Need Happiness (Not Just Survival)

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    Why do we need happiness beyond mere survival? Discover how happiness nourishes the mind, strengthens resilience, supports emotional and physical well-being, and helps us live with greater purpose, contentment, and joy in everyday life. Human beings often confuse survival with living. Survival is the instinctive effort to continue existing: earning a living, maintaining health, meeting obligations, and moving from one day to the next. Yet a life built only on survival becomes narrow and mechanical. It keeps the body moving, but it rarely nourishes the spirit. Happiness, by contrast, functions as the deeper fuel of life. Without it, existence slowly…

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